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Richard Bergson's avatar

You have eloquently described where I sit. This feeling of standing on the bridge and seeing the oncoming tide; the pull of those who have already crossed and the fear for those who don't share your view and remain and an uncertain crowd milling around on the bridge itself.

The temptation to stigmatise is great. Endless videos about how someone 'schools' another, or 'destroys' them or 'humiliates' them. I understand the need to redress the balance of powers that dwell in a post-truth land and it has a David and Goliath feeling to bring them down to size. It is truly difficult to live with the dissonance of governments and corporations proclaiming something that is clearly false and this being parroted by the media.

Having viewed a few (guilty!) I now scroll past. Apart from the fact that they usually fail to match up to the screaming headline (a sad irony for those opposing falsehood) I subscribe more deeply to your description of the need for compassion. That is hard when there are those who are far from being carried along by the Horizon 1 paradigm and instead are exploiting it for all they are worth. We need a handle or hook. Something to hang our compassion on. There are some who have too uniform a surface and compassion slips off too easily.

The need for validation of our sense of foreboding is another hill to climb. The turning away of those nearest us can be difficult to live with and living amongst those who are not yet ready to question the current paradigm requires a certain strength that is not always there. This platform, for all its faults, is still a space that can give us some of that validation. For me, at least, it enables me to turn back to those nearest to me and feel the compassion and understanding that keeps me close to them - and open to challenge. I almost welcome that as it means someone is engaging rather than turning away and it helps me to check my own assumptions.

What this all points to is that nurturing our relationships is going to be a far more productive activity than standing on our hill; that staying open to different possibilities will help build a more cooperative society and practicing these skills as a core part of our life will bring about a future that we can all live in and with.

MIchael Tscheu's avatar

Excellent. Thank you.

A while back I discovered some new bananas:

In the paradigm, magic is defined as something most often rare and special.

I have defined magic as ordinary. Now it is always present.

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